One of the most common ways you
can detect if your partner is
cheating is by looking out for
changes in his day to day
routine and behavior. If your
partner is having an affair it
is quite likely that he will
start acting differently. This
is because we all settle into
certain routines when things are
regular and normal so it is only
natural that if something
changes in our lives then things
get thrown off course and we
start doing things differently.
These changes in your husband's
routine can be giveaway clues
that he's seeing someone else
but can be so easily missed.
Have
you detected any of the
following?
Has he become short tempered
with you or children?
Does he want to be out more now
whereas before he was happy to
be at home with you?
Does he stay awake later a
night? This may be so that he
can phone, SMS or email 'her'
once you've gone to bed or
simply in the hope that you'll
be asleep before he gets into
bed.
Suspicious cell phone behavior -
Has he become possessive of his
cell phone? Does he keep it
close by whenever you're nearby?
Men who cheat use their cell
phone to communicate with the
other women. Unless they are
totally stupid and use their
home phone number. Look for him
erasing his call logs and
messages constantly.
Does he insist on answering the
phone and talks in coded mode if
you are around or feels
uncomfortable by your presence?
Has he become more possessive
toward his wallet, pocket
calendar or briefcase?
Has he started avoiding you in
the home? Doesn’t look into your
eyes straight?
Does he go out for longer and
more frequent walks?
No more arguing - Has he become
docile when arguments arise? Men
do not like confrontation when
they are cheating, they will do
whatever it takes to avoid any
type of heated confrontation.
Has he lost interest in things
he used to be passionate about,
say a particular sport or a
particular hobby?
All of a sudden has he starts
talking about getting together
with old friends he hasn't seen
in years and about whom he has
never spoken of to you?
Have
you noticed him suddenly being
more knowledgeable about women's
clothing, perfume or jewelry? If
so he could be buying gifts for
another woman.
Has he started to take an
interest in something that you
know he was never previously
bothered about?
Has he stopped leaving his
clothes lying around or started
doing any of his own washing,
maybe because there are
revealing smells or marks on
them?
Has he started encouraging you
to go alone to visit parents or
friends now a days?
Has he started attending
extended
seminars/official/business trips
or going on tours he never used
to attend and go before with
that frequency?
Has he has started keeping an
overnight bag in his car or
office, apparently for a
workout?
Does he make a point of keeping
the car/bike free of things
belonging to you or the kids?
Does
he forget to wear the wedding
ring sometimes?
Did he remember things he had
forgotten to do at the office
and wants to leave immediately
at odd hours?
