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Tips for healthy married life |
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Wake Up with Hope and Smile :
Wake up with a smile, looking at
your wife.
Wish her A Good Morning or a
Day.
Begin the day with good greeting
and full of smiles. |
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Beautiful
Reception : |
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After returning from work,
school, travel, or whatever has
separated you:
Begin with a good greeting.
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Sweet Speech and Enchanting
Invitations : |
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Choose and speak words that are
positive, avoiding negative
ones.
Give her your attention when you
speak to her or she speaks to
you. |
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Friendliness and Recreation
Together : |
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Spend time talking together.
Convey to her all goods news
known to you
Avoid Sarcasms, Never scorn |
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Games and Distractions : |
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Joke around & have a sense of
humor.
Play and competing with each
other in sports or whatever.
Take her to watch permissible
types of entertainment |
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Assistance in the Household :
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Do whatever you could as an
individual to help her,
especially if she is sick or
tired.
The most important thing is
making it obvious to her that
you appreciate her hard work.
Prepare a cup of tea or coffee
or milk, for her when she is
sick or tired.
Sit together while drinking the
cup of tea, looking at her.
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Consultation : |
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Specifically in family matters,
do not neglect her.
Give her feeling that her
opinion is important to you
Make her feel dignified and
respected by you.
Don’t reject her opinion right
away.
Be willing to change your
opinion for hers if it is
better.
Thank and encourage her for
helping you with her opinions |
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Visiting
Others : |
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Choose good people to build
relationship/friendship with
There is a great reward in
visiting relatives and pious
people.
Pay attention to own behavior
and manners during visits
Do not force her to visit whom
she does not feel comfortable
with
Allow her to visit her
parents/siblings/relatives and
also friends
Allow her to attend Marriage
functions, Wedding Parties,
Matrimonial Matters |
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Conduct During Travel : |
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Offer a warm farewell and good
advice
Ask relatives and friends to
take care of the family in your
absence
Try to stay in touch with her
whether by phone, e-mail,
letters, etc
Take her with you to any
marriage function and/or wedding
parties you are attending |
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Returning as soon as possible :
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Bring her a gift! At least some
sweets and/or Flowers
Avoid returning at an unexpected
time or at night
Tell her that you were not happy
to depart from her |
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Financial Support : |
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You
need to be generous within your
financial capabilities
You should not be a miser with
your money
Even for a small piece of bread
that you feed her by your hand
Feel her needs and make it a
habit to give her before she
asks you of anything |
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Practice good Hygiene : |
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Practice hygiene removing always
be clean and neat.
Dress yourself up with available
fine cloths |
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Healing Touch : |
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Never quarrel in the bed room.
All insults and injuries caused
to the relationship during the
day time must be medicated and
healed on the bed.
Keep in mind that insults and
injuries inflicted upon to the
feelings on the bed could not be
cured anywhere else. |
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Guarding Privacy : |
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Avoid disclosing private
information such as bedroom
secrets, personal problems and
other private matters to anyone
else.
Do not insult her before anyone
and behind her
In case of need consult with
appropriate Doctor and help her
to understand the gravity of the
situation |
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Showing Respect for her Family
and Friends : |
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Take her to visit her family and
relatives, especially her
parents.
Invite them to visit her and
welcome them
Give them presents on special
occasions
Help them physically and also
when needed with money, efforts,
etc
Keep good relations with her
family after her death if she
dies first
Keep giving what she used to
give in her life to her friends
and family |
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Avoid excess jealousy and
Possessiveness : |
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Avoid excess jealousy, which
could damage the relationship.
Examples of jealousy are:
Analyzing every word and
sentence she says and
overloading her speech by
meanings that she did not mean
Assuming things which are
actually not mean.
Preventing her from going out of
the house when the reasons are
just
Preventing her from answering
the phone
Having doubts on her without
proper reasons. |
